Turn up the heat

Spicy Truth or Dare for Couples

More direct questions and bolder challenges for consenting adults who already know each other’s boundaries. Start slowly, communicate and skip anything that does not feel right.

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Spicy truths

Questions that go beyond small talk

  • What’s your body count?
  • What’s the highest body count you’d be comfortable with in a partner?
  • What’s the biggest penis you’ve seen in real life?
  • What’s the smallest penis you’ve seen in real life?
  • Does size actually matter to you?
  • What’s your ideal penis size?
  • Boobs or ass?
  • What’s your ideal boob size?
  • What physical feature are you most proud of sexually?
  • What part of your body gets the most compliments?
  • What’s the hottest body you’ve ever seen in person?
  • Who was the best sex you’ve ever had?
  • Who was the worst sex you’ve ever had?
  • What made your best sexual partner so good?
  • Have you ever regretted sleeping with someone immediately afterward?
  • Have you ever slept with two people within 24 hours?
  • Have you ever had a one-night stand?
  • Have you ever cheated or been the person someone cheated with?
  • Have you ever wanted to sleep with one of your partner’s friends?
  • Have you ever fantasized about someone you actually know while having sex?
  • What’s something sexual you want to try but haven’t yet?
  • What’s a kink you’ve never admitted out loud?
  • What’s something sexual you tried once and would never do again?
  • What’s the dirtiest thing someone has ever said to you?

Spicy dares

Playful challenges for two

  • Give your partner a full 60-second lap dance.
  • Get on your knees in front of your partner and hold eye contact for 20 seconds.
  • Let your partner choose where on your body they want one kiss.
  • Pull your partner toward you by their hips and kiss them.
  • Grab your partner’s hair gently while kissing them.
  • Let your partner pin your hands above your head for 20 seconds.
  • Push your partner gently against a wall and kiss them.
  • Let your partner choose one piece of clothing for you to take off.
  • Take off one item of clothing as slowly as possible.
  • Give your partner a 30-second striptease.
  • Sit on your partner’s lap facing them and don’t break eye contact for 30 seconds.
  • Kiss along your partner’s neck for 30 seconds.
  • Let your partner choose between a neck kiss, thigh kiss, or stomach kiss.
  • Whisper your favorite sexual fantasy into your partner’s ear.
  • Tell your partner exactly where you want them to kiss you.
  • Let your partner choose one part of your body to compliment while touching you over clothing.
  • Give your partner your best “come here” look and make them come to you.
  • Kiss your partner while they keep both hands behind their back.
  • Let your partner choose your position for a 30-second make-out.
  • Give your partner a slow kiss, stop halfway, and make them ask for another.
  • Let your partner blindfold you and surprise you with three non-explicit kisses.
  • Trace one finger slowly from your partner’s neck to their waist.
  • Let your partner decide whether you sit on their lap or they sit on yours for the next round.
  • Say exactly what you would do if the game ended right now.

FAQ

Spicy Truth or Dare questions

What makes a Truth or Dare question spicy?

Spicy cards are more personal and sexual than mild ones. They ask about desires, fantasies and turn-ons, and the dares involve more touch.

Is spicy Truth or Dare only for couples?

It is made for couples and consenting adults who already trust each other and have talked about boundaries.

How many spicy cards are there?

SpicedUp has 80 spicy truths and 78 spicy dares, plus a Brutal mode with a truth and a dare on every card.

What if a card goes too far?

Skip it. Nobody has to answer or do anything. With Plus you can also add your own cards.