Read the truth
The question is personal and designed to invite an honest conversation.
The format
Two ways forward on every card
Read the dare
The alternative is a direct action. It should still feel safe and mutually wanted.
Choose or skip
Pick one only after reading both - or skip the whole card with no explanation needed.
Card preview
Can you choose between the two?
Card 1
Truth
Name the hottest person you know personally who isn’t your partner.
Dare
Let your partner choose one person from your social media and tell them exactly what you find attractive about them.
Card 2
Truth
What’s your exact body count?
Dare
Let your partner ask you three yes-or-no questions about your sexual past.
Card 3
Truth
What’s the biggest size you’ve ever been with?
Dare
Show with your hands what size you consider ideal.
Card 4
Truth
Have you ever lied about your body count? What number did you give?
Dare
Let your partner guess your body count before you tell them whether they’re too high or too low.
Card 5
Truth
Who was better in bed: your current partner or your best ex?
Dare
Tell your partner one thing they could do better.
Card 6
Truth
What’s the smallest size you’ve ever been with, and did it matter?
Dare
Answer whether size matters to you using only “yes”, “no”, or “sometimes.”
Card 7
Truth
What’s the biggest physical flaw your partner has?
Dare
Name the three hottest parts of their body immediately afterward.
Card 8
Truth
Have you ever faked an orgasm? With who?
Dare
Tell your partner one thing that makes it much easier for you to finish.
Card 9
Truth
Who was the worst person you ever slept with? Why?
Dare
Describe the biggest bedroom mistake someone can make with you.
Card 10
Truth
Have you ever wished your partner looked more like someone else?
Dare
Name your exact physical “type.”
Card 11
Truth
Which of your partner’s friends do you find most attractive?
Dare
Let your partner name three friends and rank them only by looks.
Card 12
Truth
Have you ever wanted to sleep with a friend’s partner?
Dare
Name the closest you’ve ever come to crossing that line.
FAQ
Brutal Truth or Dare questions
What is Brutal Truth or Dare?
Every card shows one truth and one dare at the same time. You read both and choose which one you would rather do.
Is Brutal mode free?
Every account gets 10 free Brutal rounds. After that, Brutal is part of SpicedUp Plus, which you can try free for 5 days.
Can I refuse both?
Yes. Consent comes first. Skip any card that does not feel right.